I think SS may have been having the same feelings. That could be the whole reason he would keep “moving next week.” I agree that you should sit down and tell him how much you will miss him. He’s packing and moving stuff right now. He’s leaving in a couple of hours, and realizing that maybe he should have started this packing thing a few days ago. I didn’t know if I would get a chance to talk to him, and he hasn’t been speaking to me, so I wrote him an e-mail and said what I wanted to say, that I would really miss him, there will be a hole in our family that will never be filled, that he’ll always have a place with us if he wants it, etc.
I got home last night and he was here and since then he’s been acting wonderfully, joking around and asking for help. I’m a little worried because I know he’s going into a situation where his mother wants him there but his SF definitely does not want him around. He’s already told him privately, that he may want to consider getting his own place place it’ll be too crowded with him there. They have one other child and a big new house. I think he’s really lost and confused and doesn’t know what he wants to do, but he’s gone to far with the moving plans to back out now, so I’ll guess we’ll see what happens.
Anyway I guess its almost the reverse of whats happening to you but I thought I would share it with you so that you might understand how your SK is feeling. Right now he might be thinking the grass is greener on the other side, but I guarantee you he will miss you within minutes of leaving and when he finds out the grass isnt greener, you may find he will want to come back. You and your husband have to decide if you would let him come back – and if so then TELL HIM! that the door is always open for him.
I run a home business, I actually work at home doing transcription so I am in my office all day. I am still in the process of getting my office together, having moved from the guest room into my own newly painted, wood floor redone. I don’t have to keep a lot of paper because the paper I print is actually the transcription work and goes to the medical office, but I have paper, ink for my printer, reference books, various letterheads, manilla envelopes, paper clips, computer disks and large interoffice mail envelopes with the clients tapes and patient lists on my desk now.
I have Office XP for Students and Teachers. I need to move the program to a different desktop computer, and I know it can only be installed on one system at a time. How do I go about moving the program?Clean up the old machine, and uninstall XP. Install on the new machine, and it’s going to ask for the activation code. One of the options for the regular version is to call Microsoft to get a code…you probably need to do that and tell them your story. (what a job that must be) Hard to tell if they go easy on you or put you on telephone-trial.
Do you not understand the concept of keeping ones friends informed as to what one is doing (note the [OT] tag). Perhaps it is arguable that it should have been posted to the OT list, but I’m not sure of who’s reading that. And I don’t have to justify myself to you anyway. There are people reading this newsgroup who I am closer to than I am to my own family (which reminds me, I’d better ring my father and let *him* know that we’re moving). Be assured that you are not one of them. Okay, real life puzzle that occurred to me as I was packing boxes last night.
I think everyone here’s probably experienced that, regardless of how you’re eating. The question is how do you deal with it? For me, when motivation slips I just fake it. The last thing I wanted to do this morning was run. The last thing I wanted to do was choke down a chicken breast for breakfast (I was out of eggs). But I just did. I think it’s human nature to lose motivation. Maybe I don’t have control over that. But I do have control over how I react to it. I can choose to go off plan or not exercise. Or I can choose to keep it up. Usually what I do is push harder at times like these. My schedule has been swamped lately, I haven’t been feeling well, I’m frustrated ’cause I haven’t been seeing results lately, etc.
I had not even thought of that and I like it I need some curtains made anyway (who the hell constructs a cinema room with windows in three sides and no bloody curtains ? but yes, it does have windows and no curtains and a “poxy” Sharp projector Interestingly the guy has a Pioneer 515 DVD player and a Sammie DSP-A1 av vamp (same as mine !) The screen will be over one lot of windows, so that will just be blacked out with thick black plastic behind the screen but I could get the curtain making people to make me tricky little “masking curtains” that just attached with Velcro strips 




