Moving the right things

I think SS may have been having the same feelings. That could be the whole reason he would keep “moving next week.” I agree that you should sit down and tell him how much you will miss him. He’s packing and moving stuff right now. He’s leaving in a couple of hours, and realizing that maybe he should have started this packing thing a few days ago. I didn’t know if I would get a chance to talk to him, and he hasn’t been speaking to me, so I wrote him an e-mail and said what I wanted to say, that I would really miss him, there will be a hole in our family that will never be filled, that he’ll always have a place with us if he wants it, etc.

 

I got home last night and he was here and since then he’s been acting wonderfully, joking around and asking for help. I’m a little worried because I know he’s going into a situation where his mother wants him there but his SF definitely does not want him around. He’s already told him privately, that he may want to consider getting his own place place it’ll be too crowded with him there. They have one other child and a big new house. I think he’s really lost and confused and doesn’t know what he wants to do, but he’s gone to far with the moving plans to back out now, so I’ll guess we’ll see what happens.

Moving takes it toll on the family

Anyway I guess its almost the reverse of whats happening to you but I thought I would share it with you so that you might understand how your SK is feeling. Right now he might be thinking the grass is greener on the other side, but I guarantee you he will miss you within minutes of leaving and when he finds out the grass isnt greener, you may find he will want to come back. You and your husband have to decide if you would let him come back – and if so then TELL HIM! that the door is always open for him.

 

My DH and I were the same! While I had been looking forward to first SS moving out, it was sad when the time actually came. My SS was actually a bit sneaky – he left home while we were away, and looking back now, it was probably because he knew how upset we were going to be…My DH was like a bear with a sore head, and I had fits of the guilts, because there had been a recent history of clashes of wills between SS and I.Trust me. It really *is* the best thing for your young family. My Sarah was 3.5 when her big brother left in November. She kept asking when he would be home again. She kept going up the hall to his room and opening it (it was empty). She would just look, then close the door again.

 

She actually wanted cuddles from SS! She really missed him. My then 2yo noticed he was gone, but did not ask after him as often as Sarah. We take Sarah and Matt (he’ll be 3 on 20 July) to visit SS in his new flat regularly, and we’ve been for tea a few times. SS and GF have actually looked after the two littlies a couple of times for us. I’ve also put photos of the two SSs (aged 18 and 17) in the little ones’ bed room. Sarah never really got over her brother leaving until I moved hers and Matthew’s beds into SSs old room (they share it now). THat was in February – 3 months later – and the very next time SS visited, Sarah grabbed his hand and took him up to show him his room…and told him that it was her room now, and don’t worry, I’ll look after it.

Moving Office to Home

I run a home business, I actually work at home doing transcription so I am in my office all day. I am still in the process of getting my office together, having moved from the guest room into my own newly painted, wood floor redone. I don’t have to keep a lot of paper because the paper I print is actually the transcription work and goes to the medical office, but I have paper, ink for my printer, reference books, various letterheads, manilla envelopes, paper clips, computer disks and large interoffice mail envelopes with the clients tapes and patient lists on my desk now.

 

The first thing I would do is get a file cabinet that is just business stuff or at least assign the drawers. If there is a closet in the office room, maybe put shelves in there if you don’t need it for clothes and stuff. Like I said, I am still working on mine. I have a U-shaped desk and then I have two tables set at a 90 degree angle for my quilting. Now if I could just get over to the quilting side of the room!! Thanks for the tips!! I think I will enjoy working from home! We’ve had our business (we’re an ISP) for 3 years and we’ve always had an office with lots of employees. For my mental sanity and money issues we’re scaling down and moving it home!

 

Our office is full already (ugh) at home I must remove things. I can definately make better use of the closet cuz right now it houses Xmas stuff and I can move that down into the basement after this Xmas season. I think I will put shelves in there. I have to share office with hubby, so he has a desk and I have a desk. We have a file cabinet for personal stuff and 3 or 4 bookshelves (which might move into guest bedroom).

Moving Office XP to a new Computer

I have Office XP for Students and Teachers. I need to move the program to a different desktop computer, and I know it can only be installed on one system at a time. How do I go about moving the program?Clean up the old machine, and uninstall XP. Install on the new machine, and it’s going to ask for the activation code. One of the options for the regular version is to call Microsoft to get a code…you probably need to do that and tell them your story. (what a job that must be) Hard to tell if they go easy on you or put you on telephone-trial.

 

but that’s probably the only way. The activation people have been really great the couple of times I’ve had to call. In fact, on one call, I was trying to install using a CD from a different system in the office because I couldn’t find our IT guy to get the right install CDs. The activation girl didn’t even call me a crook or anything! (But she wasn’t able to help me activate, so I had to call the IT guy to come back and get the CDs. Ah, well.) I was actually pleasantly surprised. The only time I called they were great, too. Tech support has to be a lot easier wih the mandate they must be working under. Something like: anybody who calls is probably legit, so help them out.

 

Frankly, when I was a CSR I looked forward to those great stories…I wish I had kept some of the good ones. “Dear Sir, Would you please fix this Heathkit. The cat run behind the TV & knocked it on the floor, & it hasn’t been working since.I’d not expect many. Primary is to make sure you’ve hired a quality cable installer and quality patch cables. Have someone shoot all the cables to make sure they’re good ahead of time. Installing the Ethernet cards in the clients should not be any more work than installing a Token Ring card. Same for the card in the server. Remember Ethernet uses a maximum packet size of 1518; you’ll have to modify NET.CFG on the clients anyway, adding an entry for the net card. Make sure you change Maximum Packet Size if it exists.

How to keep moving despite the setbacks

Do you not understand the concept of keeping ones friends informed as to what one is doing (note the [OT] tag). Perhaps it is arguable that it should have been posted to the OT list, but I’m not sure of who’s reading that. And I don’t have to justify myself to you anyway. There are people reading this newsgroup who I am closer to than I am to my own family (which reminds me, I’d better ring my father and let *him* know that we’re moving). Be assured that you are not one of them. Okay, real life puzzle that occurred to me as I was packing boxes last night.

 

Given a house with your average distribution of possessions (books, cds, children toys, videos, kitchenware, ornaments etc), what packing algorithms would you use in order to minimize: 1) Packing time 2) Unpacking time 3) Number of boxes used 4) Risk of breakages 5) Variance of weight between boxes What would you say was the ideal algorithm for simultaneous optimization of all of the above (of course, this is an empty question without some kind of valuation given to the different attributes to be minimized, but a qualitative answer would be fine) I did six house moves last year, for myself and other people.

 

Don’t know if it is an algorithm, as such, but the whole process is massively seeded up by using boxes of a regular size and shape, which can comfortably hold enough for one man to carry. This facilitates packing and unpacking a lorry. The more you get in a lorry, and the fewer the number of trips you have to make, the quicker the move is, generally speaking. Label the boxes. Also – invest about £30 in tough plastic mat-sheeting and castors. This allows you to roll washing machines / dishwashers / couches etc rather than carry them over carpet.

 

A transit is better than a box van because you don’t have to lift heavy things so high to get them in. Use handkerchiefs to protect your fingers from sharp edges when you lift things. They are easy to store when you don’t need them, and less annoying than gloves, which you will be forever taking on and off. Don’t have women about the place, except to feed you. Salad is not an option. (Unless you deep fry it first.) These things will make your move more efficient and speedy. ;) edeb (trembling at the prospect of premenstrual responses.

Lost focus from moving house!

I think everyone here’s probably experienced that, regardless of how you’re eating. The question is how do you deal with it? For me, when motivation slips I just fake it. The last thing I wanted to do this morning was run. The last thing I wanted to do was choke down a chicken breast for breakfast (I was out of eggs). But I just did. I think it’s human nature to lose motivation. Maybe I don’t have control over that. But I do have control over how I react to it. I can choose to go off plan or not exercise. Or I can choose to keep it up. Usually what I do is push harder at times like these. My schedule has been swamped lately, I haven’t been feeling well, I’m frustrated ’cause I haven’t been seeing results lately, etc.

 

Instead of easing up, I’m pushing *harder* That usually helps me regain focus and commitment without going off plan. I mentioned in a recent post that I’ve just shifted house – in fact moved in with BF! The trouble is, the move has shifted my focus away from my WOE. It is partly due to the heavy physical labouring I’ve been doing – like, for the last four days I’ve spent the best part of the day *very* active. Moving furniture around – unpacking all sorts of things. Plus, we live on a hill, so it’s like up-down-up-down-up-down all the time. Soon – all this heavy work is making me *quite hungry*. Which is natural, I suppose. I was hungry last night around 9pm so I gave in to my body and had a small bowl of snack mix (400 cal?).

 

Also, with all the excitement and work needed around the house I am less than 100 percent focused on the weight loss process – which seems to have switched my motivation down a notch. I’m not on the verge of packing it all in – I’m just trying to avoid the “slow, slippery slope downhill” – you know? Wondering if anyone else had experienced anything similar? As most of you are no doubt aware, we’re moving house this weekend (1st Feb). This means a number of things. First, if you have our address or land-line numbers, then they will be out of date as of Saturday.

 

Postal redirection has been put in place, starting from the Friday, but we’d prefer it if people could drop one of us an email to get the new address, rather than trusting the Royal Mail (or whatever they are calling themselves this week). The phone will not be on until the engineer has been on Monday, and therefore we won’t have internet access either. There’s no broadband in that area. Email *will* be queued at our upstream gateway, and will be delivered once we get back on-line (hopefully Monday evening). My wife’s father is hiring a van, and he, and her mother, and a couple of family friends, will be coming to help. This should be more than enough pairs of hands and transport space.

Moving because of nosy neighbors

We assumed this was a male mouse, because there was only ever the one of it; if it had been female, no doubt there would have been dozens before you or anyone else could say “Jacqueline Robinson”. I think it was Max who christened him “Speedy Gonzales”, because of his habit of sprinting past as if he were an Olympic athlete in training. There was brief period during which he was called “Roadrunner”, because of the way his legs seemed to blur as he accelerated into corners, but it didn’t really take. After that first sighting we all got to know the mouse quite well.

 

He was found in my father’s wastepaper bin eating the core of an apple, but jumped out and vanished before any action could be taken. He appeared in the bathroom while Max was having a bath: dodging the hastily-flung loofah, he went out under the door and was next seen in the basement on a windowsill investigating a vase of flowers…. We took to comparing notes on his entrances and exits when we met at breakfast and at supper…. I will say that unlike the Fire drake’s unwelcome house guests^Tempestuous, Speedy was only noisy when he occasionally broke the sound-barrier; apart from that he was light on his feet. It made him particularly disconcerting: he whizzed silently into and out of one’s field of vision, almost before one had time to react. Arriving home late at night was a special hazard:

 

Speedy used to loiter in the hall waiting to happen suddenly beneath the tangled feet of the slightly bossy, the half-cut and the downright sozzled. You may not believe it, but it is entirely possible, indeed positively easy, to trip up over a fast-moving mouse, especially if one has drink taken. The urge not to tread on the wretched creature takes over, and goes on being in force even when the mouse has whooshed off into the middle distance and beyond. This I swear is true. The reason I fell downstairs on my eighteenth birthday and chipped a bone in my ankle was nothing whatever to do with champagne and _everything_ to do with mouse-avoidance.

How moving can affect a family

For a full understanding, you need to know that the house we occupied in London had rooms at least twelve feet tall, probably more. The first we knew about there being a mouse on the premises was the discovery of mouse-droppings in an old aluminum saucepan my mother kept for boiling eggs. It is the honest truth, as witnessed by yours truly, that mouse-droppings eat through aluminum: when I say we found them _in_ the saucepan, I speak in cliche not fact. The truth is that when the saucepan was picked up, the droppings stayed on the shelf and the pan was found to have little oval holes in it. My mother thereupon used Rude Words and told the cats they were failing to earn their keep.

 

The cats ignored her. The next clue was a hole neatly drilled in the sack of food for Simon and Richmond (either Wuffitmix or Evenlode, which they had in rotation). The cats were shown the evidence, and both pretended they had never seen nor heard of mice not _never_, not even in dreams. But they looked thoughtful, and took to sitting with their backs to the kibble-sack pretending to be asleep for hours on end. About a week later I went upstairs one day and found the two cats sitting one at each end of a step just above first-floor level (or about fifteen foot above the hall floor below) and looking intent. Every so often, one or the other took a swipe at the edge of the stair-carpet, and then look baffled for a second.

 

They did this alternately, and I was interested enough to sit and watch for a few minutes. Just as I was about to wander away, bored, a mouse suddenly streaked out from under the carpet (behind which, in the riser of the stair, it must have been running to and fro for some time working out its angle and the speed of the cats’ reactions) and straight into the stairwell, where it continued to run in midair all the way down to the hall floor, across which it moved like greased lightning and vanished into what proved to be a crack under the skirting-board so narrow I had never noticed it before.

Moving from your house

I had not even thought of that and I like it  I need some curtains made anyway (who the hell constructs a cinema room with windows in three sides and no bloody curtains ? but yes, it does have windows and no curtains and a “poxy” Sharp projector Interestingly the guy has a Pioneer 515 DVD player and a Sammie DSP-A1 av vamp (same as mine !) The screen will be over one lot of windows, so that will just be blacked out with thick black plastic behind the screen but I could get the curtain making people to make me tricky little “masking curtains” that just attached with Velcro strips :)

 

I might try that and see what think. “Double good point”, though I had thought of this even in the current room, for masking 1:2.35 which seems the ratio of choice in most movies I seem to watch. Alas something like a Stewart Masking screen is way beyond my HT budget :) I am guessing it might be a pain in the arse to have to come up with a system to manually change the mask ? ie if the little curtains are fixed to mask a 120″ 16:9 screen to 100″ and I want to keep the screen width the same and change ratios to 1:2.35 I need to lower the top bits and raise the bottom bits.

 

I will talk to them when I get them around. shouldn’t be too hard, black velvet or some such a bit stretchy would be good + Velcro cut to size and added to your standard masking to bring it down to 1:2.35 i take it you don’t use it for any 4:3 or do you just zoom it down in your 16:9 if so you could add side masking the same way or use adjustable side curtains I just can’t understand my wife either, certainly not appreciative of fine picture and high quality sound (level of course). I think it would be great if all us male enthusiasts got together occasionally like how they have those car “sound off” thingies.

 

I moved up to Leicester about 8 months ago from Surrey. We’ve finally found a house to buy and everything will go through in time for us to move next week. Since we’ve a fair amount of time to move we’re going to the it ourselves (with able assistance from friends and colleagues who will no doubt need copious beer). I’m going to hire a tyranny for next weekend preferably a futon. So finally with the background covered…. does anyone know a decent place in Leicester to hire such a beastly. I knew where to get one in Surrey after living there for 5 years, but haven’t seen anywhere obvious or heard any good/bad stories about any local companies yet.

Moving the house is stressful

I’ve been ensconced in my 3-bed semi for nearly twenty years, two wives (one still current), a couple of dozen motorcycles, three dogs (two survivors) and ten cats (ditto). Finally my dear (as in expensive) wife decided that the Time Had Come. So we got a part-exchange on a four-bedroomed detached house with a little garage I can call my own. The move was a bloody nightmare – Dee had packed all her stuff up weeks before, leaving no spare room for me to move my stuff around to pack it, so all that got done on the weekend of moving. Finally got settled in just over a week ago. In the process, I had to get rid of some junk, including one Dutton Sierra (free to a mate of mine) and one Lotus Elite 2.2 (50 quid to a Lotus breaker). Bollocks to buying bloody cars, I lost a fortune on those… Still, all settled in now, and I’ve just got to sort out my study.

 

Any recommendations for ‘computer workstations’ from anyone, about 60cm wide and 80cm high, large enough top to take a 17″ monitor, pull-out keyboard thingy? Mostly Failed Instructions do summat that looks about right but it’s 110 quid… Oh yes, and a chair, one of them executive thingies – again, Moronic Frenetic Illiterates have one for 95 quid, anyone know prices from Misco and the other places that invariably send you uncatalogued of generally overpriced tat just at the right time so you’ve thrown them away by the time you think you’ll want to look at them…? Hmm, I think my sentence construction has been damaged in the move.

 

Roadrunner, at least the garage means I stayed dry the last couple of evenings working on one of the bikes, and there was light without me having to wave my hand at the security light every couple of minutes, and if I dropped a nut it landed on a concrete floor, not the grass or the gap between two slabs – how did I ever manage before? And if I sell one or two of the bikes, I can get a couple of the old ones in and start fixing them up – ah yes, evenings screwing away, getting my nuts nicely placed, I can’t wait.My opinion is that all of the operations you have described can be performed without affecting the value of the house, but that the only people who can tell you whether or not they have been done properly will be the ones on site.

 

Also, as you mention, an A+ in structural integrity could easily fail to identify cosmetic problems that could result from a careless job. Problems such as these ( sloppy detailing regarding siding and porches are the only two that come to mind at the moment) could affect resale. If you’re worried about it, pull out. I think if I were you I would. I don’t think I’d have enough confidence in the builder to accept the house at this point.