Moving your kids

What you said about me and my husband talking more, that’s one of the things I’m thinking about most, because even last night when I was getting more details about “the move”, I could tell that my husband was getting tense because he thought I was asking too many questions. I have felt lately like I’m not entitled to know what’s going on with SS, like husband doesn’t think I need to know or something. Maybe now we can have a conversation without SS coming up and both of us getting upset. Last night was the last one for him in our home. His BM’s brother lives 2 hours away and works for an airline, so he’s going to his house today and flying to her house tomorrow morning.

 

Yesterday, I took Melissa’s advice and sent him an email telling how I’m going to miss him, how there will always be a place for him here, how it’s been a joy watching him grow from 11 to 19,etc. . . even told him that Loved him, which I never had before. I rarely see him, so I didn’t really know if I’d see him to talk to him before he left. Well, when I got home last night, he was here and I could tell he’d gotten my message because he was acting wonderful, which was nice for his last evening home. Even thought this kid has been major pain, I’m feeling a little sorry for him on one account. It’s obvious to us that his SF doesn’t want him moving in with them, which is where he’s going.

 

Though “information” I have gotten that he doesn’t know that I know, SF keeps telling him how there’s few jobs there, they don’t pay well, they won’t be able to give him any help at all, he’ll have to share a room with someone (he had his own room here), he’ll have to pay all his own expenses, and yesterday actually told him that he may just want to find his own place to live rather than live with them. He tells SS to make sure he doesn’t mention these conversations to his BM, because she doesn’t know that SF is saying all these things to SS.

 

So I am worried that he’s going to break all his ties, pack all his stuff up, move down there, and not be happy because of the SF’s attitude. I guess there’s nothing I can do about that and he’ll just have to live with his decisions. It’s sad to see him walking into a situation where he’s not wanted, though. I really do think I care a lot more for him than his SF does, that’s obvious. Once again, thanks for all the insight. You’re wonderful. It really helps me see what it’s going to be like. I think I’ll frame a picture of SS with the little ones and put it in their room for them.

How to cope with moving?

Well I can’t really comment on your situation but I can perhaps give you an idea of how he is going to feel about it all. My parents had lived in the same house for 25 years – I had lived there for 21 of them. Last year Dad got offered a much better job in a town called Tamworth. Its a country town in Sydney and completely different from what they were used to. They had a months notice – and when Dad resigned from where we both worked, they fired me! That was not altogether a bad thing because it gave me a chance to spend some time with them before they left – helping to get the house – which I dearly loved even though I no longer lived there – and themselves ready to go.

 

My sister, her son and I both decided to go to Tamworth with them to help them settle in and find a place to live and all. They drove up and we flew to meet them two days later. We got them settled in a really nice house and flew back home where my sister moved in with me as she had not moved out of home yet! The hardest parts for me was – I had seen my Dad at work every day for seven years and now I spoke to him on the phone instead – I couldn’t just get in the car and drive five minutes away to go see them like I used to and because Dad had started work right away he couldn’t come back to help us sort out all the stuff in the house when it was sold.

 

My sister and I did most of that ourselves and I found myself on the verge of tears for most of that time. Three months later my sister got offered a job with Dad, so she and my little nephew followed them up there. That was really hard because she took my three year old nephew with her – who I really adore and who doesn’t like talking on the phone! I would have followed them myself if I didn’t have attachments here and I really miss them but it has taught me to say the things that are really important to the really important people – which is my whole point to you Betsy.

 

Update checker & Moving moving office

I have 3 hard drives I use in my computer. I installed MO2000 Professional CD1 to drive C and CD-2 to drive D. After the install, I have put into place using Outlook 2000 a very large number of mail list folders for lists I have subscribed to, with each folder having a rule attached to it that routes incoming mail to the appropriate folder automatically. Also, all folders in their properties are set to auto archive everyday and eliminate messages older than 30 days. Additionally, the windows address book is set with a contact for each and every list for replies to the mail lists.

 

Since I have put this mail list system (made up of over 200 folders and taking A LOT of time to configure) into place, I have begun to get squeezed for space on drive C. I would like to uninstall the first CD off of Drive C and reinstall it on Drive E. Problem is, if I uninstall office, will I lose my folders and the settings I made to them? How can I safely do this?I’m not sure if the Auto Update feature for Office 2000 in the U.K. has been disabled for the time being, but the one in the U.S. has as noted on the top of the partial download catalog (there is a longer list under the app names on the left of Officeupdate) – but you may want to try the UK page.

 

So… after having our business out of the house for 3 years… we are downsizing and moving it home, so I will be running the business from there. A lot of this JUNK I need to run the business, but there’s sooooo much of it. I don’t know what I’m gonna do. Our home office isn’t very large and already quite full of personal things. Any tips on how to separate it all in a way where I can find everything easily? Especially business v. personal. 3 years worth of business stuff from a 4 room office to a half of a room office ugh just the thought makes me cringe. The big move is the 3rd week of November.

Moving House Sale – Genealogy Books

On Monday 9th December I am moving house. This home will not have the same amount of room for storage, so I have therefore decided to sell a lot of my genealogy books that I have already read or researched from. I am looking for good homes for these items where they will be used and enjoyed. I have started listing them on ebay as I have used that in the past to sell unwanted items.

 

Please note that I have a high number of positive feedback with no neutral or negative feedback. I pride myself on being an honest person and like to deal with people who are the same. However, I have MANY MANY more items than those currently on ebay (more than I can possibly list before I move) so if there is something particular you are after — keeps your eyes open or email me. Also some I have put aside to read again before I sell so they won’t be listed for a while yet. i will be adding more items to ebay between my packing too.

 

The majority of items are Australian related such as convicts, immigration & shipping, cemetery inscription, family histories, local histories etc. I also have a fairly large collection of English local and family histories. Small collections relating to German & Scottish genealogy. Very small collections relating to Ireland, Wales, Canada and the USA.

Why are people moving and relocating?

My mother hated mice and would almost do the full ‘leaping on a stool and screaming’ routine a la Tom and Jerry, where as my aunt was not scared at all. Despite the fact that they both grew up in a country village in Oxford shire (complete with Squire :) ) I never seem to have been phased by mice or other small critters and remember setting traps in the kitchen in the house where I grew up and catching a few who appear to have scrambled in where a plumbing modification was not properly sealed.

 

Subsequently and in other households, for both my mother and aunt a succession of expert cats kept the resident rodent population at zero. However, for some years while living in my last bungalow, copious numbers of frogs would leap away from my neighbors pond and I remember clearly chasing one around my bedroom the night before a (successful) job interview. Who’s responsible for the pond in this village ?

 

Does the wildlife ever escape and bother folk around here ? See above about other aquatic fauna : bird food should be on a table or attached or hung from a tree : in either case ensure/treat the surface on the table pole or tree so as to act as deterrent to anything unwanted climbing up. This can, I’m sure, be done in a friendly manner to dogs and cats : no doubt your local garden centre hypermarket can advise.

Things to take care before moving

I have one of these, it was a gift at Christmas in a £1 pressie draw thing we had at a meet. It is really nice, says ‘Little Nipper’ on it and has it’s very own last Rolo. Did I use it? I hear you ask, no chance, I might have trapped my fingers, or worse still a mouse. I wasn’t going to deal with dead ones, live ones shooting between you feet while you sit on the loo are bad enough. And then there are those cheeky ones who come to sit on the hearth rug and watch TV or check up on your marking (the marking got packed away and hasn’t been looked at since, got to finish it for tomorrow .

 

There is also the fact that my neighbors only caught two mice in their traps and they were babies. All other traps were cleaned out withing half an hour, and the mice just sat their waiting for that mini larded to be replenished. Never saw any of these, would have tried them if possible, the ‘Mouse Man’ said they didn’t use them ‘cos they’d run out of places to let them free’. Oh and one final thing, as we sorted the last of the bits in the house, someone went into the loft to sort out electrical grubbiness (did you know you cannot leave a shower in a council flat even if the next tenant wants it, unless it belongs to the council and if you have added a fire surround you should take it out and re wallpaper the room so it looks like there wasn’t one (I left mine)).

 

Anyway while in the loft they found other droppings, not the birds which nest there every year and create their own dawn chorus with squeaks and hob nailed boots, but either rat’s or squirrel’s droppings. And there was, I am told, a family of sizes. That was the last straw for me and as we left Rodent Place I vowed never to go back. We got a card the other day from Mischief the mouse, saying he missed us and did we want to go back, cos it was boring now the sweets had gone and the pasta in the cupboard. WE occasionally get river rats at my new house, they play in the gardens and eat the bird food, but never ask to come indoors. I’m not keen on them either.

Moving House is Hard

This is my first post to asap and there are so many things I would like to say and to discuss, but in summary: I have had panic disorder for over three years now, though I had signs of it before then. It has literally ruined my life in irrecoverable ways that I won’t go into now. I took medicine for a little less than a year, then went off the drugs in order to have a child. I had a honeymoon period; while I was pregnant and for some time after, I was better than I had been since the panic disorder began. Then, slowly, it began to creep back into my life, leading to a major panic attack aboard an airliner.

 

Flying is my absolute worst thing, yet just mere months before I had flown a long trip and was amazed at how “well” I was. I have been reluctant to resume Benzedrine therapy since kicking Xanax was SO hard the first time, but a series of antidepressants, including the tricycles and SSRIs, has not been helpful. Meanwhile, I’ve had to move house a few miles down the road from my old house (read: a few miles farther from the hospital, etc.). I still own my old house but need to sell for financial reasons. I’m reluctant to part with it because it was/is my “safe place.”

 

I lie awake in my new house wishing I were in the old house. The only advantage the old house has is familiarity and proximity to the hospital; the new house is everything I want in every way. So the panic overtakes me regularly now, and I struggle, and struggle. This disorder is the worst: it ruins everything and it comes and goes. I thought I was well after a course of medicine *and* cognitive-therapy. But it returned with a vengeance, and my cognitive-therapy skills are not able to help. In addition, hating flying means that I cannot travel for work purposes and this is impacting my career. Yet if I have a panic attack, I will make them land the plane to get me off (yes, I have actually done this.

HighGround Announced NT Storage Apps

Storage Resource Manager and Media Mirror, its first two Storage Resource Management applications for Microsoft Windows NT Server and Windows NT Workstation. HighGround will demonstrate both applications at the Windows NT Intranet Solutions Conference & Exposition, August 11-15 in San Francisco. Storage Resource Manager and Media Mirror are the first in a series of applications from HighGround that will manage networked storage resources. • Storage Resource Manager is a Web-based application that automatically monitors the utilization, health, configuration, and layout of disks on Windows NT.

 

Media Mirror is a Windows-based application that brings fault tolerance and disaster recovery to Windows NT-based backup and restore operations. “Windows NT-based networks like ours that are growing in size need solutions to manage mission-critical storage resources and HighGround’s Storage Resource Management solutions fill this need,” says James Louie, a storage administrator for Nabisco Foods in Parsippany, New Jersey. Michael Peterson, president of Strategic Research Corp., a Santa Barbara, California, consultancy firm specializing in storage for networks, says that HighGround’s Storage Resource Management (SRM) products define a new category of management applications.

 

“SRM brings the capabilities of centralized storage management on mainframes to scaleable networks based on Windows NT Server. The analogy is that Storage Resource Management applications are to physical storage resources what network management is to routers and hub.” David Hill of The Aberdeen Group in Boston, Massachusetts, agrees, “HighGround’s SRM applications will enable administrators for Windows NT to centrally manage their distributed storage resources and protect their mission-critical data. SRM is bringing mainframe-class tools to Windows NT Server.”

Consequences of Slow-Moving

In cosmological first-order phase transitions, the progress of true-vacuum bubbles is expected to be significantly retarded by the interaction between the bubble wall and the hot plasma. We examine the evolution and collision of slow-moving true-vacuum bubbles. Our lattice simulations indicate that phase oscillations, predicted and observed in systems with a local symmetry and with a global symmetry where the bubbles move at speeds less than the speed of light, do not occur inside collisions of slow-moving local-symmetry bubbles.

 

We observe almost instantaneous phase equilibration which would lead to a decrease in the expected initial defect density, or possibly prevent defects from forming at all. We illustrate our findings with an example of defect formation suppressed in slow-moving bubbles. Slow-moving bubble walls also prevent the formation of `extra defects’, and in the presence of plasma conductivity may lead to an increase in the magnitude of any primordial magnetic field formed. I know this a popular topic here, I’m sure, but I was wondering if anyone had any input to share about moving to Providence, RI, including where to live (in-town someplace neat or in a suburb), cost of living, general quality of life.

 

Any responses to the group are appreciated. I i moved here a few years ago (from outside of New England). But to answer your questions, how about some more info. Where abouts are you moving from? Are you moving with family? Moving for school or work? Do you like to walk to work, or plan on driving or using busses? Do you have pets? Are you an outdoors person? Does it have to be Providence? Providence is a cool little city. I really enjoy being here. But I wouldn’t give up my car – which I use to take me out of the city. But as far as night life, it has greatly improved in the last few years (+). People in RI have their own concerns about Providence, but I feel comfortable here, and I grew up in an agricultural area, with very little crime. You can rent with someone for around $300-600, or find a place of your own for approx $450+ (usually higher). The east side is great, but if you don’t mind a little more diversity it can be cheaper to live in some of the other neighborhoods.

Moving graphics files

When you say “move”, what do you mean? To physically move a file, you would have to do it in Windows Explorer. If you do that, you will break the references in any NOF file that relied on that file being in that place on your drive. So I’d be careful about moving files once you’ve referenced them for any particular site. If you export your site as a template, all the files it uses will get stored in the template. When you open a new site from that template, all those files will get put automatically into the Assets folder for that.

 

This is what Chuck was saying back a bit. So if you want to “move” any files, do it by making a template of the particular site, then the template will gather them all together for you. (Note: Making the template won’t actually move any files. It will copy them to the template and then when you make a new site from the template, those copies all get put in the Assets folder for that particulate site.) Personal preference: I keep ALL the files for each of my sites in the Assets folder for that site. Then I never have any confusion.

 

I assume you’re trying to use the same images on multiple sites. Correct? If not, you could always export each site as a template. And bring them back into Fusion. Nothing would break, but you’d end up with multiple copies of images used on more than one site. If you move image files used in Fusion around on your hard drive to reorganize them, you won’t “lose” any (as in deleted), but the internal links in the .nod files will no longer work. So, you’ll have to go into each site in Fusion and relocate the moved images for them to appear when working on a site in Fusion.